Sponkane conference

i attended a conference in Sponkane on 3/4.
one section talked about the media.
it said the media designed what should tell audience, and what should not.
sometimes media control and hide some facts.
once we feel know well about the world, actually we don't.
i heard something like the popular color in the year actually has been designed by a group of people.
if pink and grey are popular in that year, it's not randomly happen.
many things are actually under control.

one other sections discussed what civility is.
i think that civility was actually come up with a same degree of a majority group of people.
the civility we know may actually not right,
just like the cannibals feel civil when they are eating people, but we don't.

Also, if our behaves are following under the same degree of a majority group of people.
is our culture also come up with that degree from generals?
Or our culture is designed by a special group of people.
if yes so, the special people designed society, and then the society shape individuals?
how we act is actually shaped by some special people?